Welcome to That’s What She Said
Life has a way of getting overwhelming, especially for women who are constantly juggling motherhood, careers, and everything in between. It’s easy to lose sight of yourself in the process. Over time, low self-esteem can start to build up, and you may find yourself feeling disconnected from the confident, vibrant person you once were. If you’ve ever felt like you’ve put yourself last for too long and are unsure of how to reclaim your power and confidence, you’re not alone.
This blog tells the story of a woman who went through something similar. After spending years focused on others, Preslea found herself struggling with her self-image and feeling lost. She decided to do something bold—she booked a boudoir session as a way to take back her confidence. What she discovered was more than just beautiful photos. The experience helped her reconnect with her body, appreciate her journey, and feel truly beautiful for the first time in years.
Her story is a powerful reminder that it’s never too late to take a step for yourself. Whether it’s through a boudoir session or another form of self-care, investing in yourself can help you rediscover the beauty and strength within you. You deserve to feel confident, empowered, and proud of who you are—right now, just as you are.
Q: What inspired you to book a boudoir session, and did the experience meet your expectations?
A: I had never done a boudoir session, and being in my thirties after having low self-esteem from birthing kids, I felt I needed a boost of confidence. This experience way exceeded my expectations!!!! I felt so beautiful and worthy!
Q: What was the most empowering moment you experienced during your boudoir session?
A: The most empowering moment I had during my session was at the end when I got to watch the video. It brought tears to my eyes because I finally saw what other people always tell me—that I’m beautiful.
Q: What was the most unexpected aspect of your boudoir experience?
A: The most unexpected aspect was how comfortable I felt. I had been so nervous about being vulnerable in front of strangers, but I was surprisingly comfortable. They made me feel so at ease.
Q: How did your boudoir session make you feel about your body and self-image?
A: This session made me realize that my body has done amazing things for me in life. I need to appreciate what I see as flaws and give myself more credit for how I look now, especially after losing weight and working hard.
Q: Can you recall a specific memory or detail from your session that stands out to you?
A: A standout moment was when I was changing outfits and saw myself in the mirror. I felt confident for the first time in a long time, like I was on top of the world.
Q: In what ways do you think your boudoir images capture your unique personality?
A: My personality was captured perfectly. I’m usually more of a tomboy, always in gym clothes, but the hair and makeup that day made me feel like a whole new version of myself. I got to see a side of me I don’t always show.
Q: How did you feel seeing the final images for the first time?
A: I was overwhelmed when I saw the final images. I shed tears of happiness and gratitude. Now I get to relive that confidence every time I see my photo in my room.
Q: How has your perception of yourself changed since your boudoir session?
A: My self-perception has changed so much. I wake up and actually like what I see in the mirror. I feel more confident to wear outfits I used to be scared of.
Q: What was the most unexpected aspect of your boudoir experience?
A: I was surprised that the photos were done right in their home. It felt so safe and inviting, like I was a guest in their personal space.
Q: What advice would you give to someone considering a boudoir session for the first time?
A: I’ve been telling others to go for it! There’s never a right or wrong time to do it. We all deserve to feel beautiful and special.
Q: How did you feel seeing your product for the first time? What was your favorite item?
A: I was really impressed with the quality. My favorite item is the sheet photo printed on canvas. My partner loves it too, and the best part was when my sons saw it and said, “Wow, mom! You look like a beautiful model!”
Q: Anything else you would like to add about your boudoir experience?
A: I can’t say enough about this experience. They were phenomenal to work with, and I highly recommend them to anyone thinking about doing a boudoir session!
Conclusion: Embracing Your Inner Strength and Confidence
This boudoir journey is a powerful example of how stepping out of your comfort zone can lead to life-changing moments of self-discovery. For Preslea, it wasn’t just about a photo shoot—it was about reclaiming her confidence and learning to love herself again after years of self-doubt. The experience allowed her to see herself through a new lens, one that highlighted her strength, beauty, and everything she had accomplished.
If you’re feeling like you’ve lost touch with the confident woman inside, know that you’re not alone. Whether you’ve been focused on raising a family, navigating the challenges of life, or just trying to make it through each day, you deserve to feel beautiful and proud of who you are. Taking that first step toward investing in yourself can unlock a sense of empowerment you didn’t even realize was missing.
Boudoir photography is more than just pictures—it’s a way to reconnect with yourself and rediscover the confidence that may have faded over time. Like the woman in this story, you, too, can embrace your beauty and strength and carry that feeling with you long after the session ends. You are worthy of feeling empowered, confident, and absolutely radiant.
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